Positives and negatives of Asperger's

I am intrigued to know what people think. I bet we will disagree, but this is fine Smile If we all thought the same, discussion forums would be boring!

Anyway, the negatives for me are:

Inability to form meaningful friendships and relationships, despite having many acquaintances and potential social contacts

Inability to deal with choice, planning for the future, working out what is important in life and what I need to do to get there; a lack of direction

Inability to deal with unforeseen events and changes to my usual routine;  I require a lot of warning and mental preparation

Extreme anxiety and negative thinking, obsessions and fixations (the most disabling aspect of my condition)

Can't switch off my thoughts, or deal with too much stimuli, like noise, particularly when I am already stressed

All or nothing approach to things: I am either very interested in something or very bored and directionless

Social situations are tiring and unnatural; they always feel like I am acting a part, and they feel so fake and alienating. I always feel like I am hiding a dirty secret, and this causes social anxiety

Feeling alone in the world; problems with communicating my innermost thoughts

Endless procrastination; too much thinking and not enough doing

The positives, to me, are not to be found in the condition but in my own personality:

Endlessly curious and interested in things, so long as my anxiety is not taking over my thoughts

Motivated and keen to overcome my difficulties

A positive outlook; a belief that things can improve - where there is a will there is a way!

Conscientious

Will stick up for what I believe in

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  • This world is new to me (diagnosed only recently), but to the positives:

    • I can be made happy just by seeing a bird, reflection of lights, counting tiles or bricks on buildings. And I cannot believe that sunsets are different every day! I can be fascinated in the same way every single sunsetIf I was Little Prince I would spend my whole day moving the chair around the planet...
    • filtering out nonsense
    • laughing with other people at my deadpan sense of humour - this is the thing that gives me a sense of connection most
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  • This world is new to me (diagnosed only recently), but to the positives:

    • I can be made happy just by seeing a bird, reflection of lights, counting tiles or bricks on buildings. And I cannot believe that sunsets are different every day! I can be fascinated in the same way every single sunsetIf I was Little Prince I would spend my whole day moving the chair around the planet...
    • filtering out nonsense
    • laughing with other people at my deadpan sense of humour - this is the thing that gives me a sense of connection most
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