Positives and negatives of Asperger's

I am intrigued to know what people think. I bet we will disagree, but this is fine Smile If we all thought the same, discussion forums would be boring!

Anyway, the negatives for me are:

Inability to form meaningful friendships and relationships, despite having many acquaintances and potential social contacts

Inability to deal with choice, planning for the future, working out what is important in life and what I need to do to get there; a lack of direction

Inability to deal with unforeseen events and changes to my usual routine;  I require a lot of warning and mental preparation

Extreme anxiety and negative thinking, obsessions and fixations (the most disabling aspect of my condition)

Can't switch off my thoughts, or deal with too much stimuli, like noise, particularly when I am already stressed

All or nothing approach to things: I am either very interested in something or very bored and directionless

Social situations are tiring and unnatural; they always feel like I am acting a part, and they feel so fake and alienating. I always feel like I am hiding a dirty secret, and this causes social anxiety

Feeling alone in the world; problems with communicating my innermost thoughts

Endless procrastination; too much thinking and not enough doing

The positives, to me, are not to be found in the condition but in my own personality:

Endlessly curious and interested in things, so long as my anxiety is not taking over my thoughts

Motivated and keen to overcome my difficulties

A positive outlook; a belief that things can improve - where there is a will there is a way!

Conscientious

Will stick up for what I believe in

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  • What a superb responce, clear and honest by very beautful. So much of what you you say about enjoying the detail and looking and listening for whats around you is so real to me. I am fascinated by the tiny glimpses of beauty that everyone else seems to rush past without a glance. 

    I know what you mean about sounds too. We went to the science museum this summer and I nearly freaked within minutes of getting inside because the air was full of whizzes and clunks and crackles that all demanded being analyised. An amazing place but my brain maxed out continually by all the stuff that caught my attention.

    Thanks for your post as its been a real ray of sunshine.

    Dunk

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  • What a superb responce, clear and honest by very beautful. So much of what you you say about enjoying the detail and looking and listening for whats around you is so real to me. I am fascinated by the tiny glimpses of beauty that everyone else seems to rush past without a glance. 

    I know what you mean about sounds too. We went to the science museum this summer and I nearly freaked within minutes of getting inside because the air was full of whizzes and clunks and crackles that all demanded being analyised. An amazing place but my brain maxed out continually by all the stuff that caught my attention.

    Thanks for your post as its been a real ray of sunshine.

    Dunk

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