Published on 12, July, 2020
Can someone give me some advice.Over the last few weeks our neighbours have started to ignore me or just talk in a very cold manner and hurry me off.
This stems from issues I have had with some of them and the ones that have always been friendly are now being very cold.
I also call them the fence sitters in that they could call out the trouble makers.
Any thoughts on dealing with and solving this puzzle?
Thanks
no nothing for months it is horrible however I will not give up
Thanks I guess us Autistic people like justice and to help I have always pitched in to support someone even when it was against the crowd being unpopular is often the right thing
NAS94270 said:It depends on what the initial problems were
The original issues were posted here:
https://community.autism.org.uk/f/adults-on-the-autistic-spectrum/37686/are-autistic-people-more-likely-to-have-both-with-the-police-and-council/366784#366784
NAS93846 said:the ones that have always been friendly are now being very cold.
I think this is probably them getting the feeling the issue is getting out of hand and are staying away from being involved.
It sounds liks some of the neighbours are quite unpleasant and the others who were previously supportive are now avoiding the situation in case they get targetted too and become collateral damage.
It is unfortunately a common response and one you can't really do anything about other than be pleasant with them when you see them in the hope they see you in a positive light if questioned by the authorities.
It depends on what the initial problems were and whether there have been recent incidents that might have caused some friction.