Inclusive Language

We are neurodivergent not disordered or disabled.

Agreed. Disabled or disorder has been used for too long now due to the whole it makes people think that we need to be fixed when we don’t. We just need to be accepted, included and accommodated to just like a blind person or a person in a wheelchair.

Absolutely! We have different needs due to being neurodivergent.

I disagree, I don't think a lot of "straight" people do know what LGBTQI means, maybe it's an age thing, but there are lots of people my age who make outrageous assumptions about what it is. Similarly I think they make assumptions about ND people, I've had people say things to me like, 'but you are normal, arn't you?', that made me feel like I'd escaped from a zoo or something. I think part of the problem for older people accepting differences is that years ago, parents were encouraged to place "disabled" babies and children in "homes" and forget about them, we were encouraged to pity people with any disability, people were bad if they misbehaved, especially children and we were encouraged to shun them. Lesbians were women who couldn't "get a man", and gay men were criminals and transvestites were comedians like Larry Grayson. A school friend was misidentified as a boy when born, it was only discovered that she was female a few days later, at that time if doctors were unsure of the sax of a baby they told the parents to basically pick a sex and raise them as that.

There ar still a lot of people who think that ND people are making a fuss and should behave ourselves and learn to be "normal", which is why I make the comparisson.

I disagree, I don't think a lot of "straight" people do know what LGBTQI means, maybe it's an age thing, but there are lots of people my age who make outrageous assumptions about what it is. Similarly I think they make assumptions about ND people, I've had people say things to me like, 'but you are normal, arn't you?', that made me feel like I'd escaped from a zoo or something. I think part of the problem for older people accepting differences is that years ago, parents were encouraged to place "disabled" babies and children in "homes" and forget about them, we were encouraged to pity people with any disability, people were bad if they misbehaved, especially children and we were encouraged to shun them. Lesbians were women who couldn't "get a man", and gay men were criminals and transvestites were comedians like Larry Grayson. A school friend was misidentified as a boy when born, it was only discovered that she was female a few days later, at that time if doctors were unsure of the sax of a baby they told the parents to basically pick a sex and raise them as that.

There ar still a lot of people who think that ND people are making a fuss and should behave ourselves and learn to be "normal", which is why I make the comparisson.