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Feeling like you're being difficult for asserting yourself

HMO

Whether you're setting a boundary or asking for something. Whatever the context.

I hate it and feel like I'm being judged all the time. Everyone has preferences when it comes to friendships (as you should) but the odd person has indicated that I'm asking for too much, even though I feel I'm being completely reasonable. It might just be the way I put it across but still.

It's silky because I know that I wouldn't judge someone else if they did the same, but I automatically default to being a bad person that deserves judgement.

I'm hoping I'm not alone.

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  • I can an example an about this in my life currently.I have this “friend “ in my college.She clearly love gossiping and invalidates people like ***.As a closeted autistic , she always tells me I look dead or I talk too less like Tf how am I supposed to respond to that??? This world needs more discipline atp..I try to tell her indirectly I’m not comfortable but she keeps doing it because she wants to be the “bigger person”.

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  • I can an example an about this in my life currently.I have this “friend “ in my college.She clearly love gossiping and invalidates people like ***.As a closeted autistic , she always tells me I look dead or I talk too less like Tf how am I supposed to respond to that??? This world needs more discipline atp..I try to tell her indirectly I’m not comfortable but she keeps doing it because she wants to be the “bigger person”.

    ‍♀️ like stfu

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