Age regression / age inappropriate behaviour

So recently someone I know told me that their doctor had told them one of their symptoms was age regression.

I actually had to look this up to be sure. Apparently it’s a psychological response, it’s quite rare, that’s associated with some mental health conditions, where a person will take on childlike qualities and behaviour and sometimes start acting or believing they are a child. Now every time a mental health professional accuses this person of behaving childishly they remind them that age regression is one of their diagnosis symptoms. This person is autistic but has a ton of mental health conditions on top of that.

However it got me thinking. I am often accused of being childish or immature. Of not acting my age. A lot of autistic people are painted rightly or wrongly as being Peter Pan types. It is perhaps ironic; like many other autistic people as a child adults said that I made a better adult than a child. Too serious, too linguistically precociously, too formal. And now as adults we’re too immature, not self-aware enough, not serious enough. The expectations have shifted from one side to the other and I’ve stayed the same or more the same than people expected.

So todays topic for debate. If not age regression; more generally is age inappropriate behaviour a symptom of autism? And if it is a natural aspect of autism to what extent should society be expected to accept and include it?

Here are some things to consider:

  • Age inappropriate behaviour includes public / social age inappropriate behaviour.
  • Age inappropriate hobbies and activities will mean you spend a lot of time with people from different age groups
  • Organisations, restricting, penalising or discouraging age inappropriate behaviour are probably breaking age discrimination law in most cases.
Parents
  • My regressive behaviour is very much in private. I have found the last year , or so, very difficult, lots of anxiety and now going through lots of change like, relocating to a new area after living in this house for 18 years. In private I regress to myself aged about 8-10. I have got back into Lego in a big way but only Lego from that era of 1978-85, none of the new stuff. My inner child is playing alone in the corner with Lego, well not playing really just building and setting things in diffirent configurations as playing would need imagination that I do not have.

    Rob

  • I remember being told to grow up and when I did something grown up being told off for not being old enough, I just think that as a child you can't win.

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