Published on 12, July, 2020
That's all folks. 23 years of marriage and a 14 year old son and my husband is going in search of the happiness I wasn't able to provide.
He can't see passed the past, won't forgive and says I have hurt him too badly. He says I am too different since my diagnosis 5 years ago.
This morning I am angry. I have done the tears yesterday. They will probably come back now.
Trying to work out how to co exist in the same house until he actually goes now. He slept in our bed last night, this is where my anger started.
You have my sympathies as this is a truly horrible situation to find yourself in.
If I was in your situation, I feel certain that I would struggle to continue living with a boyfriend or husband who had informed me that they no longer wanted to be with me, and I think I would find it especially difficult to sleep in the same bed as them. If there was no spare bedroom, I think it would result in me choosing to sleep on the sofa until they had moved out, or asking them to.
He has said he will sleep in the spare room from tonight