Published on 12, July, 2020
I'm not sure what help or advice you could suggest. I'm not too sure what I am looking for. A quick summary of me: 25, diagnosed at 21, have anxiety and some on and off depression. Anyhow my reason for writing - I'm a bit embarrassed to say: I have no friends. I live in a rural area and can't drive. I had very few friends at school and they have drifted away over the years. I tried university twice - couldn't handle it and was stuck in a job I hated for years. I have started a new job which I am seeing vast improvements to my mental health. However, a niggling worry in my brain is that I am alone. I worry about it. All I have is my family. When they are gone, what will happen to me? I have no connections and also another embarrassing thing to say: I have never had a relationship (or done anything with anyone). I guess this post is to ask for advice. What should I do? Thanks
I too live in a rural area but am able to drive. I cycle as well, maybe this could be an option for you? I too, had to make two attempts at gaining a degree. Making friends is hard on the spectrum but maybe you can meet people through your special interests? I joined a cycle club and have made a few good friends. I also visit London to take part in autism protests. I am not in a relationship but do not worry about it, if it happens, great.
You have made a good start by starting a new job and I hope this goes well. There are NAS social groups that meet up, maybe your local branch may have information? None in my area but there are other groups.