Published on 12, July, 2020
Howdy, I am late diagnosed autistic. As in I was diagnosed only three months ago, and I'm 25. I'm navigating life as a newly diagnosed person. I was misdiagnosed with BPD, which is common for for afab autistics. Finally having found a therapist that is willing and helpfully working with me and my long list of trauma and diagnoses has really helped. Growing up was really really hard and I never knew why. It's so validating and comforting to have an explanation for why I was so alienated, abused and bullied. I guess my question is how did others cope and grieve their undiagnosed childhoods and the trauma that caused?
I was diagnosed last year, aged 41. Still grieving for lack of understanding and support. Some days I cope well, some I don't. Staying busy helps - if I'm not busy, I start to dwell on things, which generally isn't good.
Hi Neil, I am 51 and recently diagnosed , I can completely relate to how you are feeling at he moment. Know you are not alone on those difficult days ,we are all in it together now, Keep the faith brother, Lee.
Thank you very much, Lee. It means so much to read comments like this. You might enjoy the YouTube channel Adult with Autism - I find it to be very relatable and comforting. Paul's videos certainly make me feel less alone and more forgiving of myself.