Getting rejected

Yeah, I agree.  Time.  I think that's all there is to it.  We can't make people feel anything other than they do.  And we can't make ourselves feel anything other than we do.  Overtime acknowledgement and acceptance of what we feel, slowly turns into focus on other things and then generally enters into our lives other activities and people who maybe are right for us and we for them.  But it takes time to process.  There are no rules about how to process that - whatever way is best for you.

Yeah, I agree.  Time.  I think that's all there is to it.  We can't make people feel anything other than they do.  And we can't make ourselves feel anything other than we do.  Overtime acknowledgement and acceptance of what we feel, slowly turns into focus on other things and then generally enters into our lives other activities and people who maybe are right for us and we for them.  But it takes time to process.  There are no rules about how to process that - whatever way is best for you.