Published on 12, July, 2020
My partner is waiting for a appointment to be seen by a psychiatrist to see is she is possibly autistic, we’ve been seeing someone at the gp in the mean time but currently can’t get in contact with the gp due to being very busy and says we have to wait weeks to even be spoken to.
it’s getting to the point now where my partner is pinching and grabbing me when she gets supper energy, we’ve tried fidget toys where she can squeeze them as hard as she wants but still try’s to grab me and not the toys.
its very frustrating now due to the fact I would love to help my partner but am struggling with the hyperness and pitching
does anyone have any idea what this could be and why this is currently happening? It’s been happening for a good while but is starting to get extremely worse
The reason why I am mainly bumping this rather than answering outright is because I don't know if the mechanism behind my own experience is similar enough to be helpful if I share it. I only know that what my otherhalf calls me "pawing" at him is me getting a sensory kick from stroking his arm repeatedly, but again I don't know how relevant that is to your situaton since mine isn't a bone of contention in our relationship to warrant curbing it somehow.