How do y'all feel about use of the word "aut*st"?

How do y'all feel about an autistic person identifying as an "aut*st" or calling their autistic friends they have close relationships with the same word? My autistic friend prefers it because he says it is "taking the word back", but only autistic people can use it. He likens it to the n-word or h*llbilly.

Personally, I agree with him. In fact, I designed a shirt that says "All my friends are aut*sts" (but actually spelled out without the astrix). It's from a running personal joke where I was completely unaware I was autistic and just thought I liked autistic people, which is why I would say, "All my friends are autistic." Using the word "aut*sts" in the shirt would be an indirect way of disclosing my autism flavor since only autistic people can use it. Would this shirt be offensive?

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  • Personally - I think it is the INTENT behind ANY word that matters.....not the word itself.  Forgive me for being a simple d*ckhead.

    [Disambiguation......my intent here, was humour.  Apologies to all those who don't share my style of humour.]

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  • Personally - I think it is the INTENT behind ANY word that matters.....not the word itself.  Forgive me for being a simple d*ckhead.

    [Disambiguation......my intent here, was humour.  Apologies to all those who don't share my style of humour.]

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