An interesting theory as to why we might be more visible now

So I have a theory, I'm not sure whether it's true or not but this is always a good place to discuss things so I wanted to see what my fellow autists views on the topic are

NT's always say how there seem to be so many more autistic people these days. Obviously that's not true,there has always been just as many of us autists as there is now since the dawn of time. Of course, there is more awareness now too which may lead to more people getting diagnosed or self diagnosing and which is a wonderful thing.

However, I wonder if there is another reason that we are more "visible" so to speak and that is because we live in a world that expects a lot more conformity than it used to and that is so much more overstimulating to us than it used to be. 

I feel that 40 years ago being "eccentric" was more socially acceptable and so many of us may have been accepted by friends, workplaces and society as our autistic selves without them ever realising we were autistic. We would have just been thought of as eccentric. Wheras in the modern world, particularly since the invention of social media, conformity to the "norm" is considered so much more important. Behaving, thinking and talking the same as everyone else is so much more important and there is so much pressure to be socially acceptable. Maybe that's why we stand out more.

Also there is so much more pressure in the workplace which can make it harder for us to hold down jobs. For example, "performance reviews" did not exist 30-40 years ago and there was far less mesurement of staff performance and expectation to be ultra professional and achieve the same as everyone else. Jobs were much less target driven. My uncle tells me stories of the bookshops and places he worked at in the 70s and 80s and no one would get away with the things today that they did then! (Not bad things, I hasten to add, just different and less pressured)

Finally, the modern world is so much  more stimulating to us. There are bright screens staring us in the face all day, we all have smartphone pinging in our pockets constantly, encouraging us to scroll through bright and flickering images endlessly and even when we turn our TVs on we are confronted by endless options on streaming services rather than just 3 or 4 channels or perhaps a VHS or DVD of our choosing. Some of these things might help us of course and a lot of them have really helped me but am I the only one who sometimes finds it all very overstimulating to my brain? 

Of course, all of us autistic people are all different and these are only my own personal experiences and musings but I would be interested to see if anyone else has wondered similar things 

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  • I have this sense that while improved awareness/detection has undoubtedly increased the known numbers, there is also a genuinely and hypotheticaly objectively measureable growing number, generation by generation. The environmental/notionaly causative reasons are no doubt complex and myriad. But... underneath all surface complexity lies structural inevitability - a trajectory towards an evolved future in which diversity is so common it disappears.

    The more technology enmeshes itself in our lives, the more fully we join the inevitable path to becoming something transcendent. Way, way in the future - when 'we' isn't us of course. I'm not sure I agree that social media etc. created "a world that expects a lot more conformity than it used to". Isn't the opposite more true? That the people who once felt anomalous and kept quiet about it can now find their tribe and feel empowered to claim a valid identity as human subtype 'x' - no matter how diffusely spread that tribe's numbers might be, they are ultimately legion worldwide. The catch I suppose is that such discovery and connection requires staying on-grid. Getting off-grid is valid, and I know that rationing exposure to technology feels vital to my wellbeing, but complete detachment from it would be a regressive move given how its pros outweigh its cons. 

    I've now completely lost track of what I was on about! Feeling a bit floaty due to vertigo, I might come back and fix or delete this in a bit. I just wanted to out a counterpoint, but I also see the logic of the first post from Billy too. 

  • the people who once felt anomalous and kept quiet about it can now find their tribe and feel empowered to claim a valid identity as human subtype 'x' - no matter how diffusely spread that tribe's numbers might be, they are ultimately legion worldwide

    This is true, but I've also felt very lonely over the years finding online communities I have some things in common with, but also feeling very different from them in some ways. Perhaps this is the internal conflict I mentioned above. But also, I'm trying to accept that I'm a multi-facted person who isn't going to find one group that shares all my interests and values.

  • I know what you mean. I've sometimes started a thread with the admittedly self-centrered motivation of seeking reassurance that I'm not uniquely odd. Each response would console and discomfort in ratios that thankfully favoured the former, but in some cases not by much. Because the truth is, each if us is entirely unique. Overlaps will always be approximate, even on here. Precise coincidental alignment may come up now and then, and feel miraculous when it does. But overall, the internal conflict (or, more positively put, balance - ironically a balancing statement in itself) will always be there. In here, out there. Everywhere. Approximate commonalities is the best we can hope for most of the time. But thanks goodness for those!

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  • I know what you mean. I've sometimes started a thread with the admittedly self-centrered motivation of seeking reassurance that I'm not uniquely odd. Each response would console and discomfort in ratios that thankfully favoured the former, but in some cases not by much. Because the truth is, each if us is entirely unique. Overlaps will always be approximate, even on here. Precise coincidental alignment may come up now and then, and feel miraculous when it does. But overall, the internal conflict (or, more positively put, balance - ironically a balancing statement in itself) will always be there. In here, out there. Everywhere. Approximate commonalities is the best we can hope for most of the time. But thanks goodness for those!

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  • yes, very true. I feel at home on here more than almost anywhere else in the world, it is my safe place. But even on here there are things that are completely different from what I am and thats ok. Nowhere is exactly the same as you, thats why we are all unique

    The beauty of this place is that we find some sort of common ground and a bit of a safe house from the crazy NT world out there even though we are not all the same. I think in many ways our brains are wired similarly, it is just that those wires lead us in different directions