Update on Friend or no friend?

Hello,

I have got to the bottom of why this girl from my youth club keeps on blocking me on WhatsApp.

Yesterday I accidently messaged the wrong person on WhatsApp and then she blocked me. I messaged her after saying "please stop blocking me it's really frustrating me". She then tried to deny that she keeps on repeatedly blocking me. I then explained to her that when she blocks me I can't send messages to her and the time she was last online goes and I can only see 1 tick when I send her messages. And she texted me saying that she did block me on WhatsApp last Thursday. So she did block me on WhatsApp before. She said 'yes' to this. I confronted her on why she keeps on blocking me and I explained that "friends don't do this just repeatedly blocking each other". She blocked me because she doesn't want to fall out with me as friends. She apologized for keeping on blocking me. She is still my friend, however, does she deserve to be my friend or should I give her one last chance?

I know she probably doesn't understand what friendship is and she is important to me as she's my first kiss. My first kiss was on Monday 8 August 2022 with her.

Thanks,

Cranky Pants over 2 years ago in reply to John

Your last statement does not make any sense;

John said:
I think she is mean, selfish, and greedy and above all a weirdo because she keeps on blocking me because she doesn't want to fall out with me.

If you think that about her, then it's time you left her alone and move on with your life, if you feel that way about her then find someone who is not those things, and you will be a lot happier. Good luck with life John and use this situation as an experience.
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John over 2 years ago in reply to Cranky Pants

Hello,

She and I text each other at least once and twice a day. I haven't considered that what she mentioned.

I think she is mean, selfish, and greedy and above all a weirdo because she keeps on blocking me because she doesn't want to fall out with me.

Thanks,
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Cranky Pants over 2 years ago in reply to John

Hi John, just a question, how many times a day do you text/WhatsApp your friend? Once or twice a day is ok, but if your constantly texting her more and more a day then it could be that she does not want that and it could be looked upon as harassment, this may or could cause her to block you, have you considered that?
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John over 2 years ago in reply to Catlover

Hello,

Yes, she is actually a friend of mine, however I'm considering not being her friend anymore.

She isn't supportive of me, so maybe a should move on.

Thanks,
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Catlover over 2 years ago

Her reason doesn’t make much sense to me.

Is she actually a friend of yours, or a girlfriend? Because friends don’t kiss.

If she is a good supportive friend to you, give her another chance. If she isn’t, maybe move on?
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