When people ask you to explain your autism

So today I went for breakfast with the pastor of my church and he asked me about my autism. Its ok, I was happy for him to ask and had been very open in talking to him about it in the past as he is someone I get on well with

However, it got me thinking, what do you actually say when someone asks you about your autism and how it affects you,both good and bad? In my head it is so clear how being autistic feels and all the good and bad things about it but when someone asks me to explain it my mind just goes blank and I get all tounge tied and I feel like what I say out loud doesnt sound like half of what is going on in my mind

It was similar when me and my Dad first started talking about autism. 

I always feel like its impossible to describe to someone who isnt autistic, like the only way to understand it would be to spend a few hours in my head 

Does anyone else feel like this when they are asked about it?

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  • This is an excellent question!

    I think something like:

    "In many ways, in all parts of my life.  Just like your Britishness or your Christianity affects you. One important way is that affects the way I express myself, so if you'd like more details then I will write some thoughts down as that comes more easily to me than talking about it."

    Then I don't have to answer a very intrusive and personal question on the spot.

  • That makes a lot of sense, especially the writing about it 

    He didnt ask it in an intrusive way, I have been quite open with him about my autism before so we often talk about it 

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