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Memory problems and making conversation

Guernseyguy

Hello everyone.

I am new here and i have been browsing the forum here for a while now.

I wanted to make a post, to see if other people who are autistic, suffer with both, short term and long term memory problems? 

In particular, remembering conversations, or remembering a programme you watched last night,? et's say for example EastEnders. If I was to watch an episode and then the next episode the following day I've forgotten what happended the day before.

I can't remember conversations I've had with people the previous day. Sometimes, even the same day, but only a few hours later. I find myself trying to recollect what was said, but to be met with complete mind blank.

I have struggled, for as long as I can remember, with small talk, making and holding conversations,  like many others here on the forum.

Talking and the effort it takes me, to try and do the above I find very stressful. I also tend to script play scenarios in my head, how I think the conversation will go and what I'm going to say.in reply  issue is tho, Most of the time, it goes another direction and I'm then left feeling on the spot and very uncomfortable.

I hope joining here I will find people I can relate too.

Seeing everyone around me making conversation and making it appear so easy makes me feel a failure too. Does anyone feel the same? 

Has anyone with asd ever felt like an outcast to the rest of society?

If anyone here suffers with the memory issues or similar like I have  mentioned at the start of my post, do you have anything that you find helps you? 

Thank you for reading my post 

p 

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  • I recently requested contact from my local GP. I tried to get my questions and explanations clearly in my head in preparation for his call. When he finally called late afternoon, my memory went blank. I did scribble a few notes down prior to the call but struggled with my explanation which did not make the point I wished to get across.  I had to follow up with a hand delivered full page letter that accurately conveyed the points I wanted to make in conversation.  My short-term memory sucks.

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  • I recently requested contact from my local GP. I tried to get my questions and explanations clearly in my head in preparation for his call. When he finally called late afternoon, my memory went blank. I did scribble a few notes down prior to the call but struggled with my explanation which did not make the point I wished to get across.  I had to follow up with a hand delivered full page letter that accurately conveyed the points I wanted to make in conversation.  My short-term memory sucks.

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