Established People Who Leave this Place

Some people seem to have remained in this place for many years and still pop-up in discussions from time to time. I would expect that to be the rule for these ‘elders’ of our community but I note that they are definitely the exceptions.

The vast majority of established contributors (by which I mean those with points in the tens-of-thousands) seem to ultimately disappear without a trace.

What happens to these people? Do they find it better to be away from this place when they have been thick within it for “too” long? Does the comfort and connection available here become toxic to personal growth? Does boredom creep in? Do they find it swallows too much of their time?

The optimistic side of me likes to think that they derived such tremendous advice, support, love and connection from this place that they transcended their wish to talk with others and have stormed the bastion of their NT environments, conquered all their demons and now live happily authentic and content autistic lives.

.....but I’d expect them to send a friendly postcard back to us 'young-uns' from time to time, with some encouragement that we can ultimately attain the same?

Does this unsolvable question bother anyone else out there?  Is "Plastic" still out there somewhere watching over this forum?!

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  • Very sorry to read Plastic left us, he gave some excellent life advice, full of wisdom, I had many a chat with him on here.

    I think this forum is like any community, people come and go, have ups and downs, and may or may not engage at a time that suits them.

    That may also be another stumbling block for social media in that it doesn't really factor in the person, just the persona?

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  • Very sorry to read Plastic left us, he gave some excellent life advice, full of wisdom, I had many a chat with him on here.

    I think this forum is like any community, people come and go, have ups and downs, and may or may not engage at a time that suits them.

    That may also be another stumbling block for social media in that it doesn't really factor in the person, just the persona?

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