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Appropriate and inappropriate presents

Steven

...for Christmas, birthdays etc.

* Somebody bought me an organiser-type diary. A very kind and well-meant gesture but even the thought of getting organised frightens me, as the prospect is too overwhelming. This isn't a matter of choice or preference - I just cannot even be brave & capable in the face of such harmless things as the colour-coded sections of the organiser. I flounder and panic as soon as I even look at it. Still, the thought is very much appreciated by me.

* On the brighter side, I was bought some toy dogs and cats for recent birthdays! These are such a comfort to me, and their quiet company is wonderful. I would love to have a real pet but my memory's not reliable - I often get days confused or, apparently, miss time - so I'd always be worried about whether I'd fed them or not.

What appropriate or inappropriate gifts have you received?

Parents

  • I just don't make sense, even to myself: I'm frightened to make use of the organiser diary because, if I lost it, then I'd panic at losing something I really need which reminds me of important dates etc. And yet this fear is stopping me from writing those reminders in the organiser in the first place.

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  • I just don't make sense, even to myself: I'm frightened to make use of the organiser diary because, if I lost it, then I'd panic at losing something I really need which reminds me of important dates etc. And yet this fear is stopping me from writing those reminders in the organiser in the first place.

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  • in reply to Steven

    Oh no, I so feel for you. I know exactly what you mean! No advice, sorry, it's not a problem I have solved myself, not that mine are the same, just I recognise the feeling. But sometimes just knowing someone else gets you and you are not alone having such annoying problems that don't even make sense to yourself.

    I have a weird relationship with the idea of getting organised. On the one hand, it would be so useful to not be so disorganised and feel unable to be on top of things and worry about not getting something done that would cause a problem. Yet at the same time I am afraid that being organised will mean I actually have to do those things I can't face doing! I think I may need help...