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Doubts and anxieties prior to assessment

Balletdude

Did any one else start doubting them selves in the weeks running up to you assessment?  
Knowing if you sat and thought about it rationally you have traits and signs, but gut reaction is I’m just being silly etc.

My GP agrees that I am probably autistic as do the people I’ve met in a local group. I think it’s just probably nerves knowing in a couple of months I’ll have an answer, as well as not knowing what to expect.

I’ve also been filling out a questionnaire and am feeling anxious that I can’t fill it all in because I don’t have relatives who can help.

am I just anxious over nothing?

also it’s Christmas, even though I spend it alone (which I like) I feel overwhelmed /overstimulated by it all 

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  • Notwithstanding the difference between expert evaluation and our own laypersons' opinions, I honestly think that we eventually come to *know* whether we're autistic or not. I can only speak for myself but it truly dawned on me while I was speaking to some experts in an advice session prior to my upcoming assessment: afterwards, I finally grasped that my upset in that session, my struggle to outline my experiences essentially confirmed the truth to me. It was ironic that questions about possible autism inadvertently made me drop my usual mask and actually be myself. My difficulties with questionnaires before all this occurred should've clued me in; I've been a passionate reader virtually all my life...so why was I mystified by the meaning and possible hidden meaning of such complex and nuanced (lol) questions like 'Where were you brought up?' I even managed to misinterpret or take a question on Social Rules literally, and thought it was about 'Keep off the grass' signs and the like. Smiley This is actually the *shortened* version of my recent adventures with words both verbal and written.

    All in all, while I don't doubt that qualified people know far better than I do, I can't help but feel that we at heart know the truth about ourselves, once we've heard or read the range of symptoms; we recognise ourselves at last.

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  • Notwithstanding the difference between expert evaluation and our own laypersons' opinions, I honestly think that we eventually come to *know* whether we're autistic or not. I can only speak for myself but it truly dawned on me while I was speaking to some experts in an advice session prior to my upcoming assessment: afterwards, I finally grasped that my upset in that session, my struggle to outline my experiences essentially confirmed the truth to me. It was ironic that questions about possible autism inadvertently made me drop my usual mask and actually be myself. My difficulties with questionnaires before all this occurred should've clued me in; I've been a passionate reader virtually all my life...so why was I mystified by the meaning and possible hidden meaning of such complex and nuanced (lol) questions like 'Where were you brought up?' I even managed to misinterpret or take a question on Social Rules literally, and thought it was about 'Keep off the grass' signs and the like. Smiley This is actually the *shortened* version of my recent adventures with words both verbal and written.

    All in all, while I don't doubt that qualified people know far better than I do, I can't help but feel that we at heart know the truth about ourselves, once we've heard or read the range of symptoms; we recognise ourselves at last.

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