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Asking for Reasonable Adjustments from my employer following late diagnosis

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Hi folks.

So, I'm 30 years old, and for much of that period it feels like ive been pretending to cope in a world that wasnt quite fit with someone like me in mind.

I have been with my current employer for 6 years now. And the past year has been the most difficult for me - coiciding with my diagnosis I received just 2 weeks ago.

I have asked my employer for reasonable adjustments - namely the ability to home work when I want (other than when there is a reason for me to come into the office for a meeting etc). Unfortunately that request has been met with fierce opposition, which, to me and my logical mindset, makes zero sense given I have been performing my duties at home, without issue for almost 3 years now. 

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  • My opinion......don't be too bullish with your wholly logical suggestion.  In my experience, I often know the answer without need for further discussion or consideration - but I have learned that I just need everyone else to catch up with me in their own time whilst I employ the platitudes that I have learned from the NT mindset.  "Oh, I see your point."  "Yes, I had not thought of that, we should give that some consideration"   "I'm sorry if I am being too bullish"  "We should all be open to...." ad nauseam.

    There is no doubt that NT's need a great deal more chatter and consideration of options to feel like they have done an "issue" justice, even when the outcome is a de facto self-evident outcome from the outset.  

    Be calm and patient.  Take it steady - remember that you are asking for, not demanding.

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  • My opinion......don't be too bullish with your wholly logical suggestion.  In my experience, I often know the answer without need for further discussion or consideration - but I have learned that I just need everyone else to catch up with me in their own time whilst I employ the platitudes that I have learned from the NT mindset.  "Oh, I see your point."  "Yes, I had not thought of that, we should give that some consideration"   "I'm sorry if I am being too bullish"  "We should all be open to...." ad nauseam.

    There is no doubt that NT's need a great deal more chatter and consideration of options to feel like they have done an "issue" justice, even when the outcome is a de facto self-evident outcome from the outset.  

    Be calm and patient.  Take it steady - remember that you are asking for, not demanding.

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