How do you fill your time off work?

My work is encouraging me to use my holiday days, which I haven't touched all year, but I'm not too keen.
I've structured my weekly routine around my job, and without it there I don't know what I'll do all day. Weekends I can handle, since they're just two days, but a whole week off work? I'm liable to sit around getting sad because my hobbies only take up so much time, and then when I do go back to work I'll struggle to get back into the swing of things.

Does anyone else dread taking time off work? And if so, how do you deal with it?

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  • I used to worry that I wasted my time off. I never planned what to do, didn’t go on holiday etc…it’s only this last year that I’ve realised I don’t have to do anything specific. That’s just what ‘people do’. I don’t feel the need. I just rest and unwind, and do whatever I feel like. I no longer feel bad for it. If I were in your shoes, I would make a few plans doing something nice for a few days of the week.  Just so you fill your time better. Nice could be anything at all. Trying a new recipe, baking a cake, going for a walk in a new place, visiting a museum, seeing a relative or watching something on tv.

    I usually have to take time off in full weeks, which I hate. But I still like the time off. It is so hard to get back into the routine after this short time out. I forget all the little things when starting back, like a password, or to sign in…etc etc…. Ugh. I just try and switch to ‘work me’ when I walk in,,,

  • That's some really good advice, thank you! I feel like autistic folk spend an awful lot of time letting go of stuff you get told is 'just what people do' haha

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