Where to live

I am wondering whether to carry on living in England. I wont move anytime soon as I have a lot of loved ones here but I dont know how long I can keep my family in a country that seems to be falling apart.

It is nearly impossible to see a doctor even for our young children. As for me or my wife getting to see one its about the same chance as winning the lottery. Even when you can speak to a doctor they are often so rude and unhelpful which leaves you feeling very alone as a parent. My son has chronic asthma and getting him the help he needs is like climbing a mountain.

To have the doctor actually refuse to see our 5 week old baby the other day because it wasnt "neccasary" even though we had a 111 refereal for her was the final straw. (Thankfully she is fine and doing all good) 

The school system is completely broken and I say that as a teacher for the last 10 years. I worry about sending my son into an English school when hes older, I wouldnt want him in any of the places I have seen as a teacher. I think most parents would be very very shocked if they knew what their kids were going into every day. Most English schools are a violent, lawless jungle and the few lessons the kids do get to have teach them almost nothing that would be useful in life.  I dont want my kids growing up in that system 

I think the only solution would be to move to a country that works more, where our kids can see a doctor, have a decent education and end up with a chance in life. But where? Switzerland appeals but there is a lot of red tape which I'm not sure I would like. Germany maybe, or Scandanavia. Somewhere that has lots of countryside to explore but is run by people who seem to know what theyre doing and which values the right things

Dont see this happening for a long time but for the sake of my childrens future I wonder if I may have to some day

Parents
  • I have often dreamed about moving abroad but I doubt I'll ever be brave enough. 

    It isn't as easy as it once was to move to Europe, now that we have left the EU. Many other countries will require proof of a job offer, relatives already there or substantial funds to show you can support yourself financially.

    I hear there are a lot of abandoned villages in Albania, since the former residents have all headed here. It would at least be very quiet and suited to an autistic person.

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  • I have often dreamed about moving abroad but I doubt I'll ever be brave enough. 

    It isn't as easy as it once was to move to Europe, now that we have left the EU. Many other countries will require proof of a job offer, relatives already there or substantial funds to show you can support yourself financially.

    I hear there are a lot of abandoned villages in Albania, since the former residents have all headed here. It would at least be very quiet and suited to an autistic person.

Children
  • In Albania there was (IIRC) a compulsory housing boom under the soviet system, and "Building Standards" were somewhat different to what we are used to. 

    There's also the reason why those people leave such a pleasant looking land, to be factored in to ones decision. 

    I'd still go in a heartbeat if my family would come with.

    On my own, skint and alone? Not so much.