wishface said:It seems I am failing to explain myself. That's part of my overall problem: unfortunately these failings are not seen as part of the problem, they are just seen as laziness or ineptitude or whatever. It's like I'm speaking a different language sometimes.
The written word can be tricky for anyone, you have things in your mind that you can forget the reader didn't know or something and anyone can do this, it doesn't mean your communication is bad.
Doctors frequently get impatient and terse with patients because they are on a time limit, have a stressful job and simply don't understand conditions like autism or mental health. Many can be condescending too, as they don't like being told by a patient that they have researched their condition and know what it is and they therefore will try to put you in your place. Doctors also don't get paid to understand the benefits system, and then there is always personality which is added to the mix.
Don't assume the worst, I know it's a struggle and it does feel as if the whole system is against you (believe me I have and am experiencing that myself) but you need to take proactive steps to try to resolve it where you can - hence my advice above. It's up to you whether you take that advice, but having things in writing makes things more official and can be backtracked and copied to relevant agencies as proof.
wishface said:It seems I am failing to explain myself. That's part of my overall problem: unfortunately these failings are not seen as part of the problem, they are just seen as laziness or ineptitude or whatever. It's like I'm speaking a different language sometimes.
The written word can be tricky for anyone, you have things in your mind that you can forget the reader didn't know or something and anyone can do this, it doesn't mean your communication is bad.
Doctors frequently get impatient and terse with patients because they are on a time limit, have a stressful job and simply don't understand conditions like autism or mental health. Many can be condescending too, as they don't like being told by a patient that they have researched their condition and know what it is and they therefore will try to put you in your place. Doctors also don't get paid to understand the benefits system, and then there is always personality which is added to the mix.
Don't assume the worst, I know it's a struggle and it does feel as if the whole system is against you (believe me I have and am experiencing that myself) but you need to take proactive steps to try to resolve it where you can - hence my advice above. It's up to you whether you take that advice, but having things in writing makes things more official and can be backtracked and copied to relevant agencies as proof.