Dont know best way walk away from this ?

Hi all

feel reached point relationship where dont know what to think are do  if should just leave without telling her just sending her text feel bit wrong but dont know what to do

are even explain this in my poor writing

lot of things dont even  know what to think about them  that gf says never talk about relationship with family or anyone else from start relationship had problem with my

family felt at times like she  trying get me stop all contact with my family saying be lot less stress if  didnt have any contact with them .

always seem come reason up look thought my mobile see what chatted about with my family are anybody else are if talking on mobile be same room as her

that started crying shouting if read books that feels she doesnt like are stupid or even saying that feel not paying her attention when told her one my interest is books and studying

tell me stupid books that read or films want to watch .

never know what mood she in most day she just sit watching films that she want watch  and just acting like not even there

never seem interested in anything i like will talk over me are get me buy books that she thinks i should read

her health gotten a lot worst where she bed bound now and may need operation and her breathing getting worst she refuses at times  see doctor even do she

in lot pain can barely move feel bad thought leaving her but become to much  like she point pressure on me do everything .

constant feel of never know what going on she tell me like she hiding things time ex bf who she says doesnt trust anymore phone up she telling him all about her medical appointments

that never mentioned to me  or when friend phone up that she needed him help her move some stuff that he didnt know about me and she wanted see him on her own

mentioning  that her ex bf didnt like her friend visiting house some reason  .

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  • Blimey mate - you are dealing with a lot!

    For what it is worth, I believe that a person who tries to stop you being in healthy contact with your own family is BAD, BAD news for you.  That is the red flag that flaps most loudly.

    If your gf is bed bound and suffering from serious health problems, PLEASE don't dump her by text!  Get yourself mentally prepared to explain yourself to her in person and try to be as kind as possible - maybe have someone organised to come over when you have finished talking so that whe is not left alone afterwards.

    This experience, bad though it sounds, will make you stronger and more wise in the long run.

    Stay sane & good luck.

  • Don't   think she has anyone that could be there  only one friend that I know of not sure even if he Was there how things would go.

    She had said if need break from things stay family for while then

    Other  times she feel like need me there do everything for her

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