Dont know best way walk away from this ?

Hi all

feel reached point relationship where dont know what to think are do  if should just leave without telling her just sending her text feel bit wrong but dont know what to do

are even explain this in my poor writing

lot of things dont even  know what to think about them  that gf says never talk about relationship with family or anyone else from start relationship had problem with my

family felt at times like she  trying get me stop all contact with my family saying be lot less stress if  didnt have any contact with them .

always seem come reason up look thought my mobile see what chatted about with my family are anybody else are if talking on mobile be same room as her

that started crying shouting if read books that feels she doesnt like are stupid or even saying that feel not paying her attention when told her one my interest is books and studying

tell me stupid books that read or films want to watch .

never know what mood she in most day she just sit watching films that she want watch  and just acting like not even there

never seem interested in anything i like will talk over me are get me buy books that she thinks i should read

her health gotten a lot worst where she bed bound now and may need operation and her breathing getting worst she refuses at times  see doctor even do she

in lot pain can barely move feel bad thought leaving her but become to much  like she point pressure on me do everything .

constant feel of never know what going on she tell me like she hiding things time ex bf who she says doesnt trust anymore phone up she telling him all about her medical appointments

that never mentioned to me  or when friend phone up that she needed him help her move some stuff that he didnt know about me and she wanted see him on her own

mentioning  that her ex bf didnt like her friend visiting house some reason  .

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  • Oh boy. It sounded so much like my ex-partner. after 5 years renting with flatmates we rented on our own, since then it all went downside, like what you were writing, 

    your gf doesn't want you to contact your family, or talk about your relationship with them,  so they did not smell something off and tell you

    it is gaslighting toxic relationship, where autistic is being used and stays non the wiser

    my ex had romance around 6th year together

    since then we never did do anything together or go out together

    from 8th year we've been just shouting at each other and quarelling, so I started to avoid her, and we had quiet days

    she told me once in anger: ''I did not sign for a fu..ing asperger''

    then during 10th year we promised our friends to come to their new year's eve party, on a way there she announced me that she has a new boyfriend and that she is moving out

    end of story

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  • Oh boy. It sounded so much like my ex-partner. after 5 years renting with flatmates we rented on our own, since then it all went downside, like what you were writing, 

    your gf doesn't want you to contact your family, or talk about your relationship with them,  so they did not smell something off and tell you

    it is gaslighting toxic relationship, where autistic is being used and stays non the wiser

    my ex had romance around 6th year together

    since then we never did do anything together or go out together

    from 8th year we've been just shouting at each other and quarelling, so I started to avoid her, and we had quiet days

    she told me once in anger: ''I did not sign for a fu..ing asperger''

    then during 10th year we promised our friends to come to their new year's eve party, on a way there she announced me that she has a new boyfriend and that she is moving out

    end of story

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