I am an autistic person myself, but I can only speak from the perspective of an Asperger / Level 1 autistic person.
The spectrum is so huge that it includes people who don't meet all the criteria to be diagnosed. These ableism commentators that call for one-size-fits-all speaking for all autistic people forget that.
That's the same as saying you can only speak on behalf of all human beings. If we were only allowed to speak on behalf of all human beings, the person from Norway would no longer be allowed to claim his right to heating, because the person in South America doesn't need it either. An old person would no longer be allowed to demand his right to retire because a child does not need one either. A woman would no longer be allowed to demand her right to sexual integrity, because a man does not need that either.
I am an individual and I want to be seen as such. There is a right of personality that is valid in Europe. That is the right that assures me to be seen as an individual.
"Everyone has the right to the free development of his personality, provided that he does not infringe the rights of others or violate the constitutional order or moral law."
Who is not of this opinion? And why?