Possible misdiagnosis?

This was a typical diagnostic in the 80s/90s for females if you didn't fit the expected young male profile. Common misdiagnosis of BPD might actually be ADHD or Autism. ADHD individuals don't mind the chaos in their minds, Autistics tend to hate it. From my research, this internal hyper-active brain is due to higher Gamma waves, which accelerate in to anxiety. These can create stress and impact emotions. Both ADHD and Autism are a mismatch for modern society, which also effects one sense of well being. One's emotional state being most likely the result of a myriad of other causes including not being taught how to destress, problem solve or exit unfortunate situations.

Both ADHD and Autism experience intense sensory impact, hyper-focus flow state & high attention to detail (not seeing the forest for the trees).

Strictly ADHD individuals seem to be able to understand both autistic and non-autistic communication. Autistic individuals tend to be more introverted and accident prone if focusing on more than one thing at a time. 

If you think perhaps you're autistic, look into these 2 main factors: https://monotropism.org

https://autisticscienceperson.com/2021/11/28/why-social-skills-training-does-not-help-autistic-people/ 

You've mentioned the gamma waves before. I'm making a mental note to follow your links on this and research. Sounds very interesting.

i think eupd/bpd is something mental health professionals seem to give the majority of female patients, me included and def wrong diagnosis for me.  i think it shows just how wrong and sexist the mental health diagnostic system is, nearly every female i know who has been under a mental health team has this diagnosis, its crazy

Be wound up. Be very wound up. This is not the irrational anger they want to tell you is a symptom of EUPD, this is justifiable anger. The kind of anger that is absolutely rational and you deliberately round up, channel and convert to action; to defend yourself and your sisters.

The good news through all this is that I have met with clinical psychologists skilled in both PDs and autism, who do like to recognise ND patients; good MH care hinges on holding that core to their treatment, but who don't like PD labels slapped on people. For one thing PDs and trauma conditions like PTSD are too easily confused, for another PDs (if they really exist) often emerge through trauma, so they take a don't stigmatise, just address the trauma approach. Sadly, such skilled and sensible people don't seem to stay in the NHS.

I think most of this 'slap a diagnosis on file' attitude comes from male shrinks who want shove people quickly into boxes and dish out drugs according to the box.

But yes, I think you're right. They say we are the classifiers, systemisers, and categorisers...and so we are, but we have too much compassion for people, even if we don't easily understand them, to be arrangant enough to shove them in made up boxes. We categorise things not people.

the damage bpd diagnosis and treatment has caused to people and still is causing is a scandal.  im just angry i guess that this is still happening and who was the idiot that thought up this disorder and why so many professionals taken in by it, it is based on someones opinon nothing else, sorry to be wound up by it.

the damage bpd diagnosis and treatment has caused to people and still is causing is a scandal.  im just angry i guess that this is still happening and who was the idiot that thought up this disorder and why so many professionals taken in by it, it is based on someones opinon nothing else, sorry to be wound up by it.

Be wound up. Be very wound up. This is not the irrational anger they want to tell you is a symptom of EUPD, this is justifiable anger. The kind of anger that is absolutely rational and you deliberately round up, channel and convert to action; to defend yourself and your sisters.

The good news through all this is that I have met with clinical psychologists skilled in both PDs and autism, who do like to recognise ND patients; good MH care hinges on holding that core to their treatment, but who don't like PD labels slapped on people. For one thing PDs and trauma conditions like PTSD are too easily confused, for another PDs (if they really exist) often emerge through trauma, so they take a don't stigmatise, just address the trauma approach. Sadly, such skilled and sensible people don't seem to stay in the NHS.

I think most of this 'slap a diagnosis on file' attitude comes from male shrinks who want shove people quickly into boxes and dish out drugs according to the box.

But yes, I think you're right. They say we are the classifiers, systemisers, and categorisers...and so we are, but we have too much compassion for people, even if we don't easily understand them, to be arrangant enough to shove them in made up boxes. We categorise things not people.