disclosing diagnosis to employer

Hello!

I just wanted some advice on whether or not I should disclose my diagnosis to my employer. I think that I have reached a communicative glass ceiling as my difficulty in reading between the lines causes a lot of distress personally as I am consistently analysing Tone, body language and indirect phrase to come to conclusion on what the other person is trying to convey to me and struggle to ask for what I need. Likewise my managers have said I am difficult to read and I was unable to convey my feelings in a recent meeting after well intentioned questioning. I mask very well and do it very often in my line of work. I want to disclose, however I don't want this to be viewed as an excuse for my mistakes or deficits. For some context I was diagnosed in my teen years and pass as neurotypical due to masking(although I have my eccentricities), I have worked at my job for over a year, I like working here and I like my colleagues, I don't think anybody will look down on me or treat me differently if I do disclose. Any advice, personal stories, second-hand accounts, other threads, articles or other materials would be much appreciated. Thank you!

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  • If you disclose - you can do so solely to the management and not your colleagues, and they should respect your confidentiality, - you can bring to their attention the exact difficulties your autism causes you in the workplace. Also, disclosing means that the management are required by law to make reasonable accommodations, so that you are not discriminated against relative to your non-autistic colleagues by being autistic.

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  • If you disclose - you can do so solely to the management and not your colleagues, and they should respect your confidentiality, - you can bring to their attention the exact difficulties your autism causes you in the workplace. Also, disclosing means that the management are required by law to make reasonable accommodations, so that you are not discriminated against relative to your non-autistic colleagues by being autistic.

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