Autism and friendships / isolation

Hello,

I am a mum of 2 in my 30’s. I struggle to make friends, as I work from home, have difficulties with small talk and I have a lot of sensory issues. I am interested in mental health, neuroscience and psychology. Is there anyone else out there with similar interests that is seeking friendship? Or can anyone suggest a good way to meet new friends? 

I have tried some Facebook groups, but feel a bit overwhelmed with it all. 

Thanks Slight smile

Parents
  • Hi. Welcome.

    What you said apply to most of us, maybe except children, not all of us are lucky to have them.

    I'll post a definition of how autistic make friends:

    1. Search for people with shared interests, usually online
    2. Confirm a shared interest
    3. Start having fun by knowledge sharing
    4. Explore what can be achieved with joint capabilities and capacities
    5. Embark on significant joint projects to have more fun

    2 is a must, and 3 is more fun in real world in some cases. 1 for me happened by chance

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  • Hi. Welcome.

    What you said apply to most of us, maybe except children, not all of us are lucky to have them.

    I'll post a definition of how autistic make friends:

    1. Search for people with shared interests, usually online
    2. Confirm a shared interest
    3. Start having fun by knowledge sharing
    4. Explore what can be achieved with joint capabilities and capacities
    5. Embark on significant joint projects to have more fun

    2 is a must, and 3 is more fun in real world in some cases. 1 for me happened by chance

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