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Repetitive Thoughts about Breakup - it's been three months

Elaine Yu

I don't know why my brain keeps repeatedly think about what that guy has done wrong, it happens everyday. Not enjoying my summer at all! I've even found a new person to date already. 

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  • Memories remain to help guide us. This is normal. Take the wisdom from lessons learned, but Id say never worry about them being there, they are there to help you

  • in reply to JT

    Yeah, I've learned now with friendships and with the new relationship I'm in, I'm not going to ask the person out after asking them out once, I'll let the other person ask me out next. If they don't I may as well just use them for conversation purposes. I've asked my friends and last boyfriend out too many times and I think they ended up taking me for granted that when I asked them to return the favour and they didn't. I ended the friendship and relationship right there. Because of this, I also told the dating app that it caused my mental health to downspiral and this led to the guy being banned from the app. It broke their terms and services.

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  • in reply to JT

    Yeah, I've learned now with friendships and with the new relationship I'm in, I'm not going to ask the person out after asking them out once, I'll let the other person ask me out next. If they don't I may as well just use them for conversation purposes. I've asked my friends and last boyfriend out too many times and I think they ended up taking me for granted that when I asked them to return the favour and they didn't. I ended the friendship and relationship right there. Because of this, I also told the dating app that it caused my mental health to downspiral and this led to the guy being banned from the app. It broke their terms and services.

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