I'm sure many people and kids say things they don't think about if it's right to say, but it seems this is typical for people on the spectrum. So just curios about what you have said that could be seen strange.
Most are from my childhood, and yes I learned from my mistakes, and the older I got the more cognitive aware I was about what I was saying. It's not that it happened often, but it did happen.
- I was with a friend, that was talking to a female handball coach. One of her players had a nose that went a bit up and the nostrils were a bit big. It made her face look little like a pigs face. As I wasn't able to small chat as my friend, I was focusing on other things. From no were, I said it out loud, like it was something to be seen as funny. "She looks like a pig"! I can't forget her coach face, it was about to explode, but she said nothing. I still didn't realize what I said was something to bad.
- A school mate of mine brought his family to a training practice, actually his grandma/pa. I was laughing as I it seemed strange, and was telling the other in my team, look he brought all his family. I wasn't aware that I was saying something bad, I thought it was a joke, until my friend told his elder cousin, that one day stopped me and questioned me why I said this in an angry way. This family actually really disliked people speaking bad about them.
- I was in a retail shop like Currys. There was a large TV screen and a chair next to it. They were airing Cliffhanger on it. Basically it was like 20 minutes of the movie for people to get interested of the TV and look at the quality. I just didn't realize it. I sat myself done and was watching the movie, as I thought it was something really cool. Until today that movie is one of my favorite. But yea I didn't get that this was nothing you sit down for 20+ minutes, it's not the cinema. I didn't realize it until I got older.
- But there are other things I did pick up very well. A mother left her son infront of a Super Nintendo TV, but my friend didn't let him play (Super Mario), so the kid got little anxious after 5 minutes, and more or less started crying. I realized that he was not entertained away from his thoughts, so I asked him, if he wants to go with me around the shop to look for his mom, so I took his hand and we looked for his mom. And I told my friend to tell his mom that we are looking for her if she were to come. I was just a bit older than the kid himself. In these situations I act more adult than others, maybe it wasn't the right thing to do, but I was hurt seeing him getting more anxious by every second.
- When I was 11-12, I spend some more time by myself, I could go to a Kindergarten, when it was empty, and sit down on a swing on a summer holiday and just look up the sky and dream myself into something, and it felt like everything was good and I could be whoever I wanted in the world. I don't know if this was some kind of pre-puberty thing, feeling that I was changing and needing some time for myself to understand me better.
There are sure some more, but not that many, and as I said I did learn by my mistakes, but I'm sure many kids would never say or do this things, as they would know the social outcome of it, which I missed.