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stimming on inappropriate topics

Thom George

Does anyone else with autism ever stim on inappropriate topics? What I mean by that is obsess on something other people do not find funny, but you do? I mean think about and laugh over it, like to entertain yourself.

I struggle with that. One of the main things I stim on is the guy in this newsstory. He faked having downs syndrome and wore diapers and hired female caregivers to change his diapers for his own sexual gratification. Ever since I first heard about this story 4 years ago, I have been obsessed and constantly think about it and even blurt out this man's name laughing.

See the links below on this story. 

www.washingtonpost.com/.../

www.youtube.com/watch

https://www.fox10phoenix.com/news/caregivers-allegedly-duped-by-man-who-paid-them-to-change-his-diapers-speak-out


Does anyone else find this story funny or no? And does anyone else ever stim over stuff like this?

  • Still obsessed on this new story and laugh about it. Even when having a bad day, I think about this story and laugh turning my anger into silliness. A weird coping strategy but it works to calm me down when i am mad 

  • I mean if you read the article and watched the video, I will explain why I stim over this.

    First off the guys name, Paul Anthony Mencahaca, it sounds funny to me - I mean Menchaca sounds funny to utter, even when I wear someone in spanish saying muchacho/muchaca I now laugh cuz it sounds like this guys name

    Now what he did, he faked being mentally incapacitated and hired female caregivers. He wore diapers and then would soil his diapers and then would sit in his dirty diapers having caregivers change them. I mean that is disgusting but also the craziness of that story makes me laugh

    Each time they changed his diaper, he always had an erection. According to various sources, he would have a smirk on his face or be clapping his hands and trying to talk to the caregiver when changing his diaper. Furthermore, he would complain he was not clean enough and ask the caregiver to wipe his (male part) harder. Anyone here can easily figure out what he was doing. He was getting turned on by these women he hired touching his genetals and by asking them to wipe him harder, he was basically getting a handjob (and probably would finish after the caregivers left). The thought of that alone, makes me laugh and stim, picturing him like that, again cuz of the bizzarity of this. 

    He would have the caregivers meet him in resturants and change his dirty diapers in public restrooms. I mean not even a proper, incall, wtff. So lets imagine the dude is at a dennys eating his bacon-cheddar cheese fries and he is like "uh oh gotta poop" and calls up a caregiver saying, "can you take care of this". A serious kink 


    Finally, he posing as his mothers asked the caregivers to punish her son (him) if he soiled his diapers by putting him in timeout and taking away his privileges. I mean he was 30 years old at the time, he is asking these young 19-20 yr old college girls to treat him like a pre-schooler and put him in timeout. To me that is the funniest part of the story(the caregivers were all 19-20, young and naive, how they fell for it, anyone older would have known better).


    I first learned of this story on September 17, 2018 (I am good with dates, part of how my aspergers helps me), when I was driving in my car with radio on and the DJ had on "effed up news" and then talked about this story, even laughing about it on air. Afterwards I googled the story and found all the stuff about him online, it really went viral. And ever since then I have obsessed over this and even when having bad day, I think about Paul Anthony Mencahca and laugh, calming me down.

    This is what I mean by stimming