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The pattern

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Me: 'I don't feel I belong'.

One or more other people: 'Of course you belong'

Brief period of being made to feel I belong

Make a post.It gets ignored

Meanwhile others are  responding to each other.

It reminds me of my last attempt at F2F socialising. I struggled to initiate conversation, but did my best to reply to other people's comments. There was a deafening silence. Meanwhile among everyone else the conversation flowed freely.

I am by default quite asocial, but I do periodically make the attempt to socialise. It's invariably varying degrees of a total '**** up'. It hurts.

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  • Hello  , I sorry you feel like this today. I offer you a hug, if wanted. I want to resure you that every person belongs, it just we are not all good with social situation and that includes online for me. 

    I am always happy to try and have a chat though so if you wish to please message again and I will talk to you :) 

    I wish you the best.

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  • Hello  , I sorry you feel like this today. I offer you a hug, if wanted. I want to resure you that every person belongs, it just we are not all good with social situation and that includes online for me. 

    I am always happy to try and have a chat though so if you wish to please message again and I will talk to you :) 

    I wish you the best.

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