Assessment help?

I spoke to a GP practitioner a month ago to try and get an assessment. I've just heard back from him saying the Autism Assessment service has looked at my answers and do not think I need an assessment, and if I would like to I can go private for this. The thing is the GP I talked to had never done this before.

He looked at my mental health history and said it just sounds like anxiety. He just asked me if I got anxious in social situations and what my relationship with my parents were.

I've looked into characteristics of females with aspergers and I feel like I ha e so many of the traits. But after hearing back from them I am now doubting myself.

As a child I had weird specific interests

As a kid I was particular about what I wore because I found certain materials scratchy and uncomfortable

I hate people being close or touching me, the only one I allow near is my husband

I am sensitive to sound and often hear things others don't

I notice small detail in things

I have trouble if someone gives me instructions that are more than a couple of steps at a time

I hate talking in crowds but one on one I can talk to someone about something that interests me.

I find small talk hard and difficult to keep conversations going

I hate bright light and very bright sunshine

Eye contact with people feels uncomfortable so I often look at people's mouths when they talk to me or I look away

The GP asked me nothing about this.

Parents
  • Hi, well done you for being open to curiosity, vulnerability and prepared to go on a journey of self discovery. That takes courage. I am new to looking at autism, in my partner, which is challenging, it’s not about labels, but trying to understand behaviours and expectations.  I was married to him for 30 years, and was continually confused and baffled, not knowing what was playing out.  We did seek help, yet kind of got no where, we usually went as it was me with issues, of course. So, I feel it is difficult to find the right help.  I so wished to help my ex, for now it’s about me gaining understanding.  So I just joined this group.

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  • Hi, well done you for being open to curiosity, vulnerability and prepared to go on a journey of self discovery. That takes courage. I am new to looking at autism, in my partner, which is challenging, it’s not about labels, but trying to understand behaviours and expectations.  I was married to him for 30 years, and was continually confused and baffled, not knowing what was playing out.  We did seek help, yet kind of got no where, we usually went as it was me with issues, of course. So, I feel it is difficult to find the right help.  I so wished to help my ex, for now it’s about me gaining understanding.  So I just joined this group.

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