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abloner

I usually lose any control of myself if I plunge in a conversation with somebody. Some short exchanges are structurally short lived (like with a shopkeeper, or if you ask an information to a passerby in the street). But if the conversation has some consistence and durance I lose completely control and I need often a long time to reconstruct the bubble in which I live (in which I only may live). One technique I employ with some success is to devote myself to solitaries for some time after quitting the exchange. As solitaries (free cell for example) engage the left hemisphere only, I hypothesize that engaging the left hemisphere I may put the right one at work to rebuild my emotional bubble. I may suggest that this is one reason for which people in the autistic spectrum tend to “lecture” others. Lecturing others about some subject you think you know well avoids dialogue and maintains your false “integrity”.

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  • Hi Gosh what an interesting insight for me this has been..reading the exchange between yourself and Longman..thank you.

    I do not (to my knowledge) have an ASD but there is so much truth in what you are saying. I get so frustrated with the 'acts' and false actions of others...Give me someone who 'shoots from the hip' anyday over the 'social nicities'.

    I struggle trying to explain to my partner and son the ridiculous complexities of in an attempt to protect them from the hurt that comes their way. Often I just think , that my guys have got the right idea and the NT world is just at such a juxtaposition from reality. How can you explain the unexplainable?

    Thanks for helping me understand.

     

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  • Hi Gosh what an interesting insight for me this has been..reading the exchange between yourself and Longman..thank you.

    I do not (to my knowledge) have an ASD but there is so much truth in what you are saying. I get so frustrated with the 'acts' and false actions of others...Give me someone who 'shoots from the hip' anyday over the 'social nicities'.

    I struggle trying to explain to my partner and son the ridiculous complexities of in an attempt to protect them from the hurt that comes their way. Often I just think , that my guys have got the right idea and the NT world is just at such a juxtaposition from reality. How can you explain the unexplainable?

    Thanks for helping me understand.

     

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