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abloner

I usually lose any control of myself if I plunge in a conversation with somebody. Some short exchanges are structurally short lived (like with a shopkeeper, or if you ask an information to a passerby in the street). But if the conversation has some consistence and durance I lose completely control and I need often a long time to reconstruct the bubble in which I live (in which I only may live). One technique I employ with some success is to devote myself to solitaries for some time after quitting the exchange. As solitaries (free cell for example) engage the left hemisphere only, I hypothesize that engaging the left hemisphere I may put the right one at work to rebuild my emotional bubble. I may suggest that this is one reason for which people in the autistic spectrum tend to “lecture” others. Lecturing others about some subject you think you know well avoids dialogue and maintains your false “integrity”.

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  • I have presumably means enough to reach  the end. But you can’t  avoid instrumental exchanges. Shopkeepers are generally kind  (if they weren’t they should change their trade). But what about, janitors, mister or ms opposite, nurses, plumbers, administrative personnel, competitors in a line, docs, And if you lose self sufficiency?   This last thing happens to most old people if they don’t disappear suddenly. Nurseries for the old are a heart breaking disgusting spectacle.  

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  • I have presumably means enough to reach  the end. But you can’t  avoid instrumental exchanges. Shopkeepers are generally kind  (if they weren’t they should change their trade). But what about, janitors, mister or ms opposite, nurses, plumbers, administrative personnel, competitors in a line, docs, And if you lose self sufficiency?   This last thing happens to most old people if they don’t disappear suddenly. Nurseries for the old are a heart breaking disgusting spectacle.  

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