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abloner

I usually lose any control of myself if I plunge in a conversation with somebody. Some short exchanges are structurally short lived (like with a shopkeeper, or if you ask an information to a passerby in the street). But if the conversation has some consistence and durance I lose completely control and I need often a long time to reconstruct the bubble in which I live (in which I only may live). One technique I employ with some success is to devote myself to solitaries for some time after quitting the exchange. As solitaries (free cell for example) engage the left hemisphere only, I hypothesize that engaging the left hemisphere I may put the right one at work to rebuild my emotional bubble. I may suggest that this is one reason for which people in the autistic spectrum tend to “lecture” others. Lecturing others about some subject you think you know well avoids dialogue and maintains your false “integrity”.

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  • An interesting reply abloner, reads like poetry - which means your management of written language is excellent.

    Do we have to fit in? That is the question. Dickensian England, which seems from social documentation as well to have been very diverse in eccentricity and mannerism. Life was shorter and early death more common, misfortune in health and wealth more accepted. People accepted difference.

    Nowadays we have to conform to the standard social "factory" - standard units of behaviour driven by media and fashion.

    Einstein, if indeed he had aspergers, was in some ways better tolerated than he would be today. Nowadays they want us to change to be like everyone else. They think we're missing something.....

    Yet to use that memory skill, focus and innovation we need the time and solitude to do it. We're not being allowed to because we all have to play vastly greater social parts. Einstein would have been partied, discoed, counselled, entertained so much he would never have had time to discover anything.

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  • An interesting reply abloner, reads like poetry - which means your management of written language is excellent.

    Do we have to fit in? That is the question. Dickensian England, which seems from social documentation as well to have been very diverse in eccentricity and mannerism. Life was shorter and early death more common, misfortune in health and wealth more accepted. People accepted difference.

    Nowadays we have to conform to the standard social "factory" - standard units of behaviour driven by media and fashion.

    Einstein, if indeed he had aspergers, was in some ways better tolerated than he would be today. Nowadays they want us to change to be like everyone else. They think we're missing something.....

    Yet to use that memory skill, focus and innovation we need the time and solitude to do it. We're not being allowed to because we all have to play vastly greater social parts. Einstein would have been partied, discoed, counselled, entertained so much he would never have had time to discover anything.

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