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Am I being unreasonable?

stranger

I don't see how I am. But I would appreicate opinions from others.

Basically, someone on the spectrum is obsessed with me and keeps sending me messages on Facebook. I asked him to stop contacting me all the time. He claimed that's what friends do. He's moaned a few times because he doesn't see me that often.

We met at an Autism group and a few times, I've said for various reasons, I'm not going, which seems to have really upset him. He also wasn't happy that I said I wasn't going somewhere with him due to noise. He can't understand that's a form of torture.

He said last night that he wants to get the branch officer of the Autism group, him, me and his two support people together to sort this out.

There's nothing to sort out. He just needs to understand that I don't want to be contacted all the time.

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  • Hi - if the branch officer of the autism group does contact you then tell him you're being harrassed + don't want anything to do with this person.  Or you could contact the branch officer yourself (by email??) + put your case.

     As the other posters have said, you don't have to put up with this.  The info they've given should be helpful to you, even though I appreciate having to deal with all this is v stressful for you.  So, if you have to, then report this person to the police and/or another professional who can sort things out.  Good luck

     

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  • Hi - if the branch officer of the autism group does contact you then tell him you're being harrassed + don't want anything to do with this person.  Or you could contact the branch officer yourself (by email??) + put your case.

     As the other posters have said, you don't have to put up with this.  The info they've given should be helpful to you, even though I appreciate having to deal with all this is v stressful for you.  So, if you have to, then report this person to the police and/or another professional who can sort things out.  Good luck

     

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