Autistic and epileptic

I'm autistic and have epilepsy and I still have seizures and I'm a mum no one has ever even commented on it & I've had a lot of help & support from workers since day one. 

I'm autistic and have epilepsy and I still have seizures and I'm a mum no one has ever even commented on it & I've had a lot of help & support from workers since day one. 

Well my best friend split up with her ex was her carer and everything don't want to understand her I even tried giving him books to learn about how autistic mind is different from neurotypical mind he don't want to know her seizures r caused through stress 

How do u get that help coz social services don't understand the autistic side of the brain