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Awaiting assessment but learning a lot

BristolSteve

Hi everyone

Thought I'd say hi as I'm new to the group, 42, male. I'm currently awaiting a formal assessment following a referral to BASS from my GP. But upon discovery that I may be on the spectrum my eyes have been opened wide. Until I get a formal assessment it's difficult not to jump the gun and run with it but the more I read from websites and particularly testimonies from this forum, the more I can't believe that it has taken 42 years for someone to even think this about me. It feels like the signs were obvious, and actually I'm annoyed that healthcare professionals and therapists have always treated the symptoms rather than consider the possibility that there might be a deeper cause - I've been in and out of therapy since my early 20s and had depression and anxiety since I was 9. Anyway, I won't delve into that now but I have 2 questions I was wondering if people could comment on please?

First one is does anyone know how long BASS take to get back to you with an assessment appointment? I was told it could be 12 months but some people in this forum have waited a lot longer by the sounds of it.

Secondly is a more general query about how people deal with 'rewriting' their history once being diagnosed. My brain is going 100mph looking at the whole of my past through different eyes and actually realising that certain things did or didn't happen because of the possibility of being on the spectrum. Friendships, relationships, life choices, emotions, all suddenly look very different when viewed from this angle. It's an odd mixture of terrifying, disappointing, sadness, relief, and confusion and whilst trying not to let it take over my thoughts it's very difficult. You get reminded of something and all of a sudden you look at it and go "I wonder if it happened like that or I reacted in that way because I'm on the spectrum". Does post-diagnosis care help you understand and deal with these things?

Anyway, thanks for taking the time to read this and I'd appreciate anyone's thoughts.

Steve

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  • Hi! Welcome to the forum fellow BASS waiter.

    I was referred in December 2020. I got my triage appointment in late July 2021 and was originally told it would be this February to April but after having followed up I've been told my final assessment won't be until at least July 2022. It's a long time. If you get through it in a year then they will have massively ramped up their game, which would be great but I wouldn't count on it. Who told you it would be 12 months? BASS or your GP? 

    Some tips to know about BASS while I'm here:

    - They generally like to call you out of nowhere to arrange appointments for within a couple of weeks. It sucks, it's really shocking and for me was very distressing. Just a warning for the future if unexpected stuff like that throws you. 

    - They won't contact you unless it's about an appointment. Not to keep you updated on how the queue is looking, not to tell you that as you've changed gp to a new area you've been discharged ( a friend of mine went to uni and experienced this ), nor to tell you that there is an at least 4 month delay on what you were told at your triage appointment. I recommend checking in every 6 to 9 months just to ask how things are looking, and make sure that they still remember you. They have an active email account that you can use if you don't like phone calls, but their admin staff are apparently incredibly understaffed and overworked so it is taking about a week or more to reply to emails, but that isn't too bad. 

    Some research is a good thing, and I know the rabbit hole is easy to fall down. Do try not to get too obsessed (easier said than done I'm aware), combined with the long, long wait it didn't do great stuff to my productivity or my mental health. But yeah the complete reassessing of your entire life is a weird time to go through. 

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  • Hi! Welcome to the forum fellow BASS waiter.

    I was referred in December 2020. I got my triage appointment in late July 2021 and was originally told it would be this February to April but after having followed up I've been told my final assessment won't be until at least July 2022. It's a long time. If you get through it in a year then they will have massively ramped up their game, which would be great but I wouldn't count on it. Who told you it would be 12 months? BASS or your GP? 

    Some tips to know about BASS while I'm here:

    - They generally like to call you out of nowhere to arrange appointments for within a couple of weeks. It sucks, it's really shocking and for me was very distressing. Just a warning for the future if unexpected stuff like that throws you. 

    - They won't contact you unless it's about an appointment. Not to keep you updated on how the queue is looking, not to tell you that as you've changed gp to a new area you've been discharged ( a friend of mine went to uni and experienced this ), nor to tell you that there is an at least 4 month delay on what you were told at your triage appointment. I recommend checking in every 6 to 9 months just to ask how things are looking, and make sure that they still remember you. They have an active email account that you can use if you don't like phone calls, but their admin staff are apparently incredibly understaffed and overworked so it is taking about a week or more to reply to emails, but that isn't too bad. 

    Some research is a good thing, and I know the rabbit hole is easy to fall down. Do try not to get too obsessed (easier said than done I'm aware), combined with the long, long wait it didn't do great stuff to my productivity or my mental health. But yeah the complete reassessing of your entire life is a weird time to go through. 

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