Theory of Mind

Hello all,

I have recently had three sessions with a clinical psychologist to explore whether difficulties I have had for as long as I can remember (depression, anxiety, intense social anxiety, difficulty maintaining relationships etc etc) might actually have an explanation, i.e. perhaps I am on the autistic spectrum.  

I approached this man in particular as his profile - on BUPA Finder - listed one of his specialisms as Autism Assessment.  I completed the Adult Autism Spectrum Quotient (AQ) and GADS questionnaires and I was told that I had 'autistic traits' but he could not go further than this - I would have to get an official assessment (which I thought I was getting but that is another story!).

The ambiguity of this has left me feeling quite confused and upset. 

However, from what I have researched, having issues around 'theory of mind' is fundamental to being autistic, and I don't think this is something I have difficulty with.  So, I was wondering if anyone would be willing to share real life examples of how difficulties with theory of mind might present itself/affect them?  

I should mention that I am a 44 year old woman.

Thank you so much.

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  • Regarding the double empathy theory, I found this paper particulalry interesting: 

    https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1362361320919286#:~:text=However%2C%20the%20Double%20Empathy%20theory,and%20a%20non%2Dautistic%20person

    Essentially what they did is they made groups of 8 people: either 8 autistic people or 8 neurotypicals or a group of mixed austists and neurotypicals (50:50). 

    A researcher would read a story to the first person in each of the groups. That person would then have to tell the story to the next person in their group. This second person would then again have to pass on the story to the following person etc. The researchers recorded how much information was lost at each recounting/ passing on of the story.

    Interestingly they found that communication in autistic only groups/chains was just as effective as in neurotypical only groups. However in the mixed autistic/neurotypical group communication was much less effective and more information was lost.

    This supports the idea the autistic people can communicate well amongst each others. Similarly neurotypicals communicate well with each other. The difficulties arrise when autistic people and neurotypicals communicate with each other. It probably took a while for this to be recognised as autistic people usually get judged on how they communicate with neurotypicals and not on how well they communicate with each other. 

    I found this study very interesting. 

  • Yes, Simon Baron-Cohen is using the fact he's a Cousin of a major Celebrity to try and make himself known. His Psychopath test, he did with Jon Ronson, tried to insinuate that Christians are Psychopaths.

    'Experts' are Nineteen to the Dozen these days. Mostly full of hot air.