Would your life have been different if you’d been diagnosed earlier?

Hello all,

Like a lot on here I was diagnosed later on in life, in my fifties and fairly recently. My daughter asked me if my life would have been different and would I go back and change it if I could. 

I had to think about this, and I’m still trying to work it out. My initial answer is yes I really do wish I’d have been diagnosed earlier and had educational plans in place and maybe not bullied as much and gotten my degrees a few years earlier than I did. 

BUT……

Im ok with who I am, and maybe my struggles are what made me who I am and maybe without struggles I’d not have built the resilience I have. 

I thought it was a good question. Do you guys wish you’d have been diagnosed earlier on in life? And if so would your life have been different to how it is now?

Parents
  • ‘If’…

    infinite options 

    born of the real issue= My negativity 

    the question is ‘how do I let go of negativity’?

    how do I feed my sense of well-being through healthy questions?

    what are the healthiest questions? 

    if I had been diagnosed and the attitude of negativity lived within me then my negativity would have attacked another of my realities.

    what I don’t have as reality is a figment of my imagination 

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  • ‘If’…

    infinite options 

    born of the real issue= My negativity 

    the question is ‘how do I let go of negativity’?

    how do I feed my sense of well-being through healthy questions?

    what are the healthiest questions? 

    if I had been diagnosed and the attitude of negativity lived within me then my negativity would have attacked another of my realities.

    what I don’t have as reality is a figment of my imagination 

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