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I can’t see the point in wearing Necklaces

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If I have tried to fit in and wear a necklace.

I find it difficult to understand why anybody wants to wear a necklace because when we put the necklace on we can’t see the necklace. it’s only for everyone else who  can see the Necklace.  But we can’t see the necklace ourselves, so isn’t it waste of time even wearing it.

May as well go round the shop and just look at necklaces on display and enjoy them like that, and not pay for them, because if I pay for a necklace the only time I’ll ever see it, is if I open my drawer and look inside at it.  I’ll never see it, only if I look in a mirror at myself.     Quite often people wear a necklace and it’s under their clothes and it’s cold on our skin. I can’t see the point in necklaces.

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  • some jewellery is symbolic. So being seen isn't always the point. It presence is a reminder to the wearer.

    Of course you will see the necklace when you look in a mirror and a lot of people feel better about themselves when they like what they see in the mirror.

    also how you appear to others can radically effect how they treat you. This is sad but true and particularly true when it comes to physical attraction.

    Lastly worn against the skin jewellery can have sensory effects. Most metal warms to body temperature after you've worn it for a while but the texture and weight of metal is quite unlike fabric. Also some jewellery, I'm thinking particularly of body piercings, is designed to altering the sensations parts of the body feel by stretching, pushing on, rubbing on, shielding or exposing skin.

    There is absolutely no need to wear one to fit in. plenty of women don't wear them.

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  • some jewellery is symbolic. So being seen isn't always the point. It presence is a reminder to the wearer.

    Of course you will see the necklace when you look in a mirror and a lot of people feel better about themselves when they like what they see in the mirror.

    also how you appear to others can radically effect how they treat you. This is sad but true and particularly true when it comes to physical attraction.

    Lastly worn against the skin jewellery can have sensory effects. Most metal warms to body temperature after you've worn it for a while but the texture and weight of metal is quite unlike fabric. Also some jewellery, I'm thinking particularly of body piercings, is designed to altering the sensations parts of the body feel by stretching, pushing on, rubbing on, shielding or exposing skin.

    There is absolutely no need to wear one to fit in. plenty of women don't wear them.

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