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Getting a job

BabyPotato

I'm autistic.

Fairly high functioning but mentally the age of 12. 

I also have a LOT of health problems which affect my daily life. I had to drop out of school because I spent a lot of time in hospital and fell behind. I also kept fainting due to poor health etc. 

I recently got 2 jobs ( I haven't started yet but I got my offers) One is as a Healthcare assistant where I will have to work 3-4 days a week and the other one is as a medical laboratory assistant as a bank job. 

My mum isn't happy about me getting the jobs and I think she keeps getting angry at me because she said that I can't do them. I'm 18 now so I'm allowed to work there legally. The money is important becuase I need to save up money for university and also to help my mum get new windows because these ones are rotting. I also want to do something interesting and stimulating. I am obsessed with medical knowledge and these jobs will give me good exposure. 

I'm a bit afraid to do the jobs but I've already committed and it's better now than never at all. 

How can I make her not angry? 

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  • Hey!

    Congratulations on securing the job, this is great - and you have already achieved a lot more than many of autistic people ever will (in terms of career and working ability)

    Similar to what someone else has said, our Mums can be over-protective and very nurturing, which is natural, it's a mothers instinct.

    It is very commendable that you want to start saving money for uni and also to help out with the windows at home. In addition to this, you have clearly thought about this carefully, you have attained a job which is in line with your interest/potential future career.

    A piece of advice, make sure that you let work know if you are struggling with something, need guidance or any questions. Show initiative, you will not come across annoying. Businesses/company's love this! Also, in regards to your autism, it is your choice how much you disclose to them, you may have already told them about your disability on the application form. This means they already know, but make sure the company do not ever use your disability against you, or put you at a disadvantage.

    Best of luck with your new job, I am sure you will do amazingly! Actions are better than words, in some people's opinions. Prove to your Mum that you can handle your new job, your studies and any other responsibilities. I started my first job at the age of 16 and still working now, my CV has years of experience.Grinning

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  • Hey!

    Congratulations on securing the job, this is great - and you have already achieved a lot more than many of autistic people ever will (in terms of career and working ability)

    Similar to what someone else has said, our Mums can be over-protective and very nurturing, which is natural, it's a mothers instinct.

    It is very commendable that you want to start saving money for uni and also to help out with the windows at home. In addition to this, you have clearly thought about this carefully, you have attained a job which is in line with your interest/potential future career.

    A piece of advice, make sure that you let work know if you are struggling with something, need guidance or any questions. Show initiative, you will not come across annoying. Businesses/company's love this! Also, in regards to your autism, it is your choice how much you disclose to them, you may have already told them about your disability on the application form. This means they already know, but make sure the company do not ever use your disability against you, or put you at a disadvantage.

    Best of luck with your new job, I am sure you will do amazingly! Actions are better than words, in some people's opinions. Prove to your Mum that you can handle your new job, your studies and any other responsibilities. I started my first job at the age of 16 and still working now, my CV has years of experience.Grinning

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