Getting a job

I'm autistic.

Fairly high functioning but mentally the age of 12. 

I also have a LOT of health problems which affect my daily life. I had to drop out of school because I spent a lot of time in hospital and fell behind. I also kept fainting due to poor health etc. 

I recently got 2 jobs ( I haven't started yet but I got my offers) One is as a Healthcare assistant where I will have to work 3-4 days a week and the other one is as a medical laboratory assistant as a bank job. 

My mum isn't happy about me getting the jobs and I think she keeps getting angry at me because she said that I can't do them. I'm 18 now so I'm allowed to work there legally. The money is important becuase I need to save up money for university and also to help my mum get new windows because these ones are rotting. I also want to do something interesting and stimulating. I am obsessed with medical knowledge and these jobs will give me good exposure. 

I'm a bit afraid to do the jobs but I've already committed and it's better now than never at all. 

How can I make her not angry? 

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  • yes  i think she worries that others will harm you mentaly, you are a nice and composed kid and she loves you

    maybe it's not angry but worried?

    once she sees you work, she will calm down

    and you need to fuel your hunger, we are like a sponge :P

    try to assume honest approach during interview, no masking and hiding,

    masking and hiding during interview was preventing me from getting a job for 20 years,

    now i tried without and i have a job

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  • yes  i think she worries that others will harm you mentaly, you are a nice and composed kid and she loves you

    maybe it's not angry but worried?

    once she sees you work, she will calm down

    and you need to fuel your hunger, we are like a sponge :P

    try to assume honest approach during interview, no masking and hiding,

    masking and hiding during interview was preventing me from getting a job for 20 years,

    now i tried without and i have a job

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