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Feeling Vulnerable?

LS

Hi Everyone,

I've been with my partner for a long time now, but recently they have wanted to have more friends.

I'm finding this is making me feel vulnerable as they want the friends they have to be separate from our relationship (they won't invite them in to the house when I'm here).  I don't understand this reasoning and it's making me feel like something else is going on, even though they have told me there isn't.

Has anyone been in this situation before?

Thanks for any replies.

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  • It's not a great feeling to be left out, especially if it's by your own partner. Well there may be a possibility that there's something else going on, because it's just kind of weird that they don't even introduce you to their friends at the very least, and only invite them over when you're not there. But If there is a reason they should just tell you about it, rather than letting you worry about it. I think you should discuss it with your partner. I mean if there's people in my house when I'm not around, I'd just be scared that they'd steal my stuff. 

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  • It's not a great feeling to be left out, especially if it's by your own partner. Well there may be a possibility that there's something else going on, because it's just kind of weird that they don't even introduce you to their friends at the very least, and only invite them over when you're not there. But If there is a reason they should just tell you about it, rather than letting you worry about it. I think you should discuss it with your partner. I mean if there's people in my house when I'm not around, I'd just be scared that they'd steal my stuff. 

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