Just Diagnosed

So I'm 27 yrs old and for pretty much all my life I knew I was different and that something wasn't right with me. I've never been close with my family. I hated being hugged by my mum and sisters. I'm sensitive to light, noise and touch. I can't wear gloves because of the material of them. I hate change and I like the same foods. I'm no good at socialising. So I've just been diagnosed with Autism and though that's given me an explanation as to why I'm like this I just feel numb now and lost. What happens next? I don't want to be like this forever. Is there a way to get over this? I've no kids no job and no boyfriend. I've had relationships in the past but I was either used or told that I had no feelings and was just cold. I can't help being this way I'd change if I could. The diagnosis has answered questions but now I feel lost and don't know what to do. You guys got any advice?

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  • It’s going to be ok. You’ve done so well to get to 27 without a diagnosis. I’m not autistic (I don’t think!?), my daughter is, but maybe counselling could be a good first step for you? or if that’s a bit much how about a visit to your gp? It’s a big thing to be diagnosed so give yourself some time to adjust.

     Good luck c

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  • It’s going to be ok. You’ve done so well to get to 27 without a diagnosis. I’m not autistic (I don’t think!?), my daughter is, but maybe counselling could be a good first step for you? or if that’s a bit much how about a visit to your gp? It’s a big thing to be diagnosed so give yourself some time to adjust.

     Good luck c

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