adult diagnosis - woman in her late 40s

It was suggested to me by my psychotherapist in the summer that I might be autistic.  I have since done a lot of research and can identify with some of the signs but not all of them.  Although my GP has agreed to refer me for an assessment, I sense that he has not taken it that seriously and doesn't believe that I'm actually autistic.  I have learnt that girls and women are good at hiding their difficulties and, being in my late 40s now, I will have learnt to adapt to survive so far.  Does anyone have any advice they can give me about what it's like for a woman in her forties to pursue a diagnosis?  Also, does anyone share my sense that they can really identify with some symptoms of being on the spectrum but not all of them?  I feel I would benefit from talking to someone who has already been through the experience and any help or advice they can give me.

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  • I was diagnosed this year, (I'm 41) and I never suspected I was autistic. My psychologist asked if I wanted to do some different tests, and it turned out I scored super high on the autistic test. My first feeling, as she told me the results, was that of a mask being torned of me, and also like a lot of things fell in to place. I was recommended to read a book by Jenara Nerenberg called Divergent Mind - Thriving in a world that wasn't designed for you. She is a journalist who was diagnosed late, and she gives so many great examples of what being neurodivergent is, but also how diverse we all are. We are not the same, we have different experiences and neurodivergent trates. What we have in common is that we are neurodivergents 

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  • I was diagnosed this year, (I'm 41) and I never suspected I was autistic. My psychologist asked if I wanted to do some different tests, and it turned out I scored super high on the autistic test. My first feeling, as she told me the results, was that of a mask being torned of me, and also like a lot of things fell in to place. I was recommended to read a book by Jenara Nerenberg called Divergent Mind - Thriving in a world that wasn't designed for you. She is a journalist who was diagnosed late, and she gives so many great examples of what being neurodivergent is, but also how diverse we all are. We are not the same, we have different experiences and neurodivergent trates. What we have in common is that we are neurodivergents 

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