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What to do after a diagnosis is NOT confirmed after an assessment?

NAS39237

Hi,

I had my Autism assessment today after 3 years of waiting and the assessor believed my situation did not line up with the Autism Spectrum. His reasoning seemed to be that it is because I felt that it did not affect my life at an early age but certain debilitation have become more problematic in adulthood.  He mentioned the vague term of me having a personality disorder - more likely Anxiety. Yet, despite my obvious disappointment I don't know what to make of it - I've a list of Personality Disorders and common traits within them and nothing seems to jump out at a connection.

The problem is I feel that the debilitation I have are not just apparent when I am anxious. A lot of it is social based but even when I am with a friend I still cannot make eye contact among many other sensory and personality conflicts - I feel as if I simply don't qualify as an adult nor can handle any life skills expected as an adult.

I could go on further but the simple point is I am stuck, do I get another referral which I would have to pay for/cannot afford or look further into this vague term of personality disorder and go from there? I feel the debilitation getting worse, struggling to manage my work by the second. I was hoping to get through this get assistance but now I fee l am left  with nothing... & I don't know what to do...

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  • Did you list all your problems? Do you feel you have some of the traits? What’s your gut feeling?

    How do you know that you felt it didn’t affect your life much if you didn’t know you were (Possibly) on the spectrum?

    I think your diagnosis of sorts is questionable. It isn’t helpful either. We know that Autism can look like a lot of other disorders.

    You are entitled to a second opinion, just as you can go private.

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  • Did you list all your problems? Do you feel you have some of the traits? What’s your gut feeling?

    How do you know that you felt it didn’t affect your life much if you didn’t know you were (Possibly) on the spectrum?

    I think your diagnosis of sorts is questionable. It isn’t helpful either. We know that Autism can look like a lot of other disorders.

    You are entitled to a second opinion, just as you can go private.

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