Age issues

Just wondering if anyone on here doesn't feel the age they are? Like I am a 34 year old man and sometimes I feel really mature and grown up but a lot of the time I feel like mentally Im still 17

I thought having a family would make me finally feel like a grown up but I just feel like a teenager with a wife and kid tbh

i always get on with people who are either younger or older than me.

Wondered if anyone else has these life expereinces 

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  • I’ve got to be honest I miss being a teenager. I had so many ambitions and dreams for that part of my life that never panned out. Now people tell me I should want ‘adult’ things. A kid, a calm responsible woman, a house and mortgage, sensible job. I don’t really find my self strongly draw to those things.

    I'm well disposed towards children but I’d rather act like one than be responsible for them. I prefer wild adventurous women to the settling down type. A house would be nice but I wouldn’t want to be locked into a job I hate to afford the mortgage. My job is far from secure. It’s great, it probably as close as you can get to ‘mad scientist’ in real life, but not very secure.

    I really value family and home but for me it’s not really so much about reproduction or coupling up and settling down. I’d like to have a home I could fill with friends and parties and make great memories. Projects too. It’s fun to turn your living room into a workshop for a few weeks and just build something cool with your friends. … if I had any. At least any who wanted to do that.

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  • I’ve got to be honest I miss being a teenager. I had so many ambitions and dreams for that part of my life that never panned out. Now people tell me I should want ‘adult’ things. A kid, a calm responsible woman, a house and mortgage, sensible job. I don’t really find my self strongly draw to those things.

    I'm well disposed towards children but I’d rather act like one than be responsible for them. I prefer wild adventurous women to the settling down type. A house would be nice but I wouldn’t want to be locked into a job I hate to afford the mortgage. My job is far from secure. It’s great, it probably as close as you can get to ‘mad scientist’ in real life, but not very secure.

    I really value family and home but for me it’s not really so much about reproduction or coupling up and settling down. I’d like to have a home I could fill with friends and parties and make great memories. Projects too. It’s fun to turn your living room into a workshop for a few weeks and just build something cool with your friends. … if I had any. At least any who wanted to do that.

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